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  • author ( 34, cub / man | Huddersfield, England - Yorkshire, GBR )

    Im open to doing anything but think drinks are always needed on the first meeting just helps breaks the ice lol So maybe a few drinks out down the pub and maybe back to mine for a film and a take away, no expenses spared...  see more >>

  • author ( 28, cub / man | Chicago, IL, USA )

    Meeting for drinks for the first time is pretty casual whether you're going to have a glass of wine or a cocktail, or even if you're meeting for coffee drinks are casual and allow for conversation. Depending if you're ac...  see more >>

  • author ( 27, cub / man | Wilmington, NC, USA )

    when the sun fall out the sky, all i have is me and the land of the "do or die" a freeway , a gas pedal and a piece of mind. Now thats the ultimate high.

  • author ( 32, cub / man | Saint Cloud, MN, USA )

    Talking over drinks and head out to hotel room/your place. You sit on the bed while I strip slowly. And I'll cater to everything you need and desire.

  • author ( 26, cub / man | Sulligent, AL, USA )

    we should start with drinks so we can talk, if we seem to be hitting it off right then the possibilities could be endless.

  • author ( 22, cub / man | Glasgow, Scotland - Lanarkshrie, GBR )

    Shots, cocktails, dancing, lots of dancing, back to more drinking, dancing (love a dance), probably a few more drinks and then a last min boogie

  • author ( 62, cub / man | Chula Vista, CA, USA )

    Meet for a drink or coffee. Get to know each other. Go back to someplace to get physical. Necking during a NetFlix movie.

  • author ( 58, cougar | Cheshire, CT, USA )

    Would love to meet at a local place, where there's music, good food, and I drink diet cokes-or AT a coffee place- if you can't meet at a pub.Dounkin Dounuts is good. Im a talker but I've been told my stories are not bori...  see more >>

  • author ( 32, cub / man | Toronto, ON, CAN )

    We can meet at my favorite bar in the Kensington Market area. There's usually live music and they offer a good selection of local beers. We could potentially go for dinner at Harvest Kitchen (on Harbord Street), before o...  see more >>

  • author ( 31, cub / man | Anaheim, CA, USA )

    A nice relaxing drink, or a bite to eat, to sit down and talk to get to know each other. Followed by a stroll through the town or on the beach. Ideal!

  • author ( 29, cub / man | Woodbury, NJ, USA )

    Maybe we can hit your favorite bar and you can show me around your town while we get to know a little more about each other

  • author ( 36, cub / man | New York, NY, USA )

    We meet somewhere quite. Separately. We find each other from across the bar and flirt for a while. Finally someone gives in and meets the other. We don't talk, we just get a feel for each other. Sit close. Hand on an arm...  see more >>

  • author ( 39, cub / man | New York, NY, USA )

    Drinks are perfect! Alcohol is a social lubricant, getting drinks is not too committed for a first encounter (either of us can bail if it gets uncomfortable), it's done in front of others (i.e. safe), and there's nothing...  see more >>

  • author ( 33, cub / man | Los Angeles, CA, USA )

    I don't do the movie and a bite to eat kinda thing. I rather go to secluded lounge, for some drinks, and soft music to really take in the entire ambience of it all. Engage in flirty conversation and just get lost in the...  see more >>

  • author ( 45, cub / man | Las Vegas, NV, USA )

    Meet and have a drink to get acquainted, and find out how well we click. And if so we can decide to have a second date or maybe continue with the one we are on and start having some fun